Help Me With a Caribbean Vacation

**This is my first ever post, so please forgive me if I’m doing this wrong***

I’m going on a cruise later this year with stops in Aruba, Bonaire, and Curacao. I promise I’ve already done a ton of my own research looking at potential shore excusions and/or experiences and do have a list of potential options, however, it’s starting to feel a little overwhelming and there’s quite a bit of overlap (which I totally get makes sense since they’re islands and they’re going to offer a lot of the same activities).

So, I’m looking to you for help to plan my vacation!
If you’ve been to any of the islands, what are your « do not miss » recommendations?

Here are some other questions:
* I’d love to try parasailing on one of the islands. Which one would you recommend?
* Which of the ABCs has the best snorkeling?
* If we were just going just get off the ship on one of the islands and skip guided tours/shore excusions/paid experience, which of the three islands would be best for that?
* Are there any hidden gems or unique experiences on any of the islands that we shouldn’t miss?

Thanks in advance for your help and recommendations!
-A